Tuesday, August 18, 2020

#30DayFilmChallenge - Day 3: "A film that has more than five words in the title." - FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DATE FRIENDS (2014)

A version of this post was originally published on May 28, 2020 on my Facebook page.

DAY 3: "A film that has more than five words in the title."

I'm sort of making this up as I go along through this 30 day challenge, but I'm excited that I managed to name early on in the process a locally made film, FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DATE FRIENDS (2014), written and directed by Rhonda Parker. It happens to be one of my favorite features made in WNY, and as an added bonus, I became friends with Rhonda and her husband, Mark (who was the director of photography) after I saw their film at the Buffalo Dreams Fantastic Film Festival. Our friendship has been cemented since then by the fact that I not only created the poster/DVD cover designs to two subsequent feature films they made, MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE and A CHRISTMAS MONSTROSITY, but I did so well after the deadlines they gave me - ah, yes, the personal Kimmel touch! Yes, "Better late than never" is perhaps the worst professional freelance artist motto to have...



But getting back to FDLFDF (that's the movie title for short, not my tongue flapping in the breeze): it's delightful, has strong performances from the three leads (Adam S. Dixson, Erin Stamp, and especially Rhonda's cinematic alter-ego, Amelia Favata) and a solid ensemble cast supporting them. But, most importantly, the film is personal, wearing its John Hughes inspirations unabashedly on its sleeve, but not in a derivative way. Rhonda tells her story in her own way, citing Hughes' past films as part homage and part affectionate template to carve out her own storytelling path.
Okay, some of the jokes are corny, and a scene or two perhaps could have been shot more effectively (a sign of the low-budget strain on a tiny crew wearing multiple hats simultaneously). But Rhonda's empathy for the characters is genuine, and the ending is affectingly told, managing to be both sentimental, yet not saccharine, and cautiously optimistic.
The soundtrack also boasts an excellent collection of songs from the Lonely Ones, a band out of Rochester, NY.
Some day I hope to do a bonafide review of the film. Stay tuned.

Check out the trailer:



#30DayFilmChallenge2020, Day 3